
In all my musings about Personal Learning Networks (PLNs) these past few months, I realized last night that I neglected to mention one of the most essential components: teens — my two children, and all students under my guidance each semester.
One epiphany came at 1:30 a.m. last night, as I helped my sixteen year old son finish a Social Studies Challenge project –a difficult task considering his long work shifts this past weekend, a Law 12 test, and a rehearsal for the upcoming school musical that lasted from 4-10 p.m. The project involved creating a pictorial tile to represent a Cree landscape at the turn of the century, telling a story through careful selection and manipulation of photos with editing tools, and using the color blue as the dominant hue. My son rarely asks me for help but he did request my presence as a sounding board for his ideas – and I indeed served this function over the weekend – and last night, as assistant production designer with a bit of cutting and gluing (footprints and boot prints) around the stroke of midnight. What is important, however, is not the narrative my son conceived of (which, by the way, is perceptive) nor the artistry and composition (which is quite proficient, from a design perspective). The real story is how we related to each other – and what I learned from helping him in this endeavor.
The other moment emerged over morning coffee as I thought of my fourteen year old daughter studying science with her dad, and how I helped her prepare for an intense Biology test months before – something about which she felt tremendous stress and anxiety . All of this preparation has occurred within a hectic extracurricular schedule of ballet, tap, jazz, hip hop classes and performances.
From these moments, here’s what I’ve learned from the teens in my PLN:
- Never assume that a teen doesn’t appreciate tremendous support. I received the best thank you and bear hug from my son last night. I will always remember and cherish this moment in time.
- Bright, capable kids feel incapable at times: they need more than words of encouragement; they need acknowledgement of their stress, and often help – not with the work itself — but help in the sense of being present as an adult, as a voice of reason, as an oasis of calmness.
- Teens need explicit teaching and modelling of study strategies and time management. Neither comes naturally, even to the brightest and most motivated of students. My daughter told me that I taught her how to learn – by showing her a myriad of strategies for making sense out of pages of complex biological terms. She’s continuing to apply these strategies – understanding that well-applied strategies supercede the amount of time invested studying. After completion of the project, my son discussed the process, and I’m pleased that he realized – on his own — that regardless of his heavy schedule this past week, some different weekend time management may have helped to avoid last night’s marathon.
- Teens need modelling of calm, problem-solving behavior. I learned that I haven’t been the best model in this regard at times – drinking copious amounts of coffee to deal with fatigue from my late nights and long weekends working on my M.Ed. Although coffee has its health benefits, I don’t want my children or students relying on it to stay awake. My son has steadfastly eschewed coffee (not only for dislike of the taste, but also projected cost of a coffee habit – yes, he is budget-minded) until this morning. I hope that this isn’t the beginning of a lifelong coffee habit!
- Authentic, long-term, meaningful learning isn’t about perfection and knowledge in the denotative sense; yes, assessment and grades do indeed count for something, but what ultimately matters are the takeaways from the learning experience, knowing the process of learning, and knowing that knowledge and the learning process are dynamic – moving targets for which one must constantly adjust approach and aim. I’ve watched my Library and Information Skills students this semester understand these principles of learning from many of our class discussions and assignments. This is the joy of teaching!
In this context, it’s serendipitous that today I received this question via Linked In, a “Trending Discussion” in Ted Talks: Ideas Worth Spreading, Unofficial. Although I cannot yet answer this question for other aspects of my life, I do have “certainty” about why I teach – as a mom, and as a Humanities teacher and teacher-librarian.
“Does ‘certainty’ exist? What is the foundation of certainty in anything?
Of this I’m certain: Nothing gives me greater joy as a parent – and as a teacher –than when students tell me how they’ve learned to learn, perhaps think differently about an issue, demonstrate connections made to other learning, express pride in a project well done — or simply express the joy of learning. And yes, I do believe that “joy” and “learning” can be compatible partners!

Life beyond the Literature Review. After months of research on Personal Learning Environments (PLEs), intense, ongoing reading and re-reading of scholarly journals, weeknights and weekends spent cloistered in the graduate study area of the University of Victoria, resulting in a thirty page draft with forty-seven references, I anticipate a different set of 3R’s: reading for pleasure, rhododendrons, and running.






Next, I sketched out a detailed outline for the first section, and wrote it in a single sitting. I repeated these steps for the second section.







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